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j'ai fais avec un traducteur internet alors je te conseil de relire un peu parce que c'est jamais tout juste
@+ Damien
Christophe has relations between confidence and me and the members of the family. He has periods during which he is reserved more and he maintains some secrecies on his life with the college and his contacts with his ami(e)s. But we have more and more moments of dialogues and exchanges which enable us to better include ourselves/understand. When we have conflicts on the everyday life at the house or its school work we try more and more not to face us directly as it was the case a few years ago. Each one of us makes a concession and we try to regulate our problems while discussing and by including/understanding the reasons and the point of view of the other. With the members of our family, the relations of Christophe are close and sincere. They appreciate to return visit to his/her aunt, to her cousins and with his grandmother even if the exits with its ami(e)s are more frequent and take its availability. It is important also that it has its personal meetings and that he is made friends without for that neglecting the essential moments of our life of family (birthdays, festivals...). With his 23 year old brother who does not live any more with us, it keeps contacts and their reports/ratios are those of young people who appreciate ourselves and trust each other. They are undoubtedly confidants one for the other on subjects more intimate than it is difficult initially to entrust to his parents or to other adults of the family. In connection with its starting project to go to study in a foreign country, my concerns are not completely dissipated. I think that they will remain during the first months of his stay. It is a maternal feeling which one can include/understand. But, I find his step courageous and it surprised me because I did not think that Christophe can invest itself with such an amount of energy and will in such an ambitious project. Its determination pushed me to support it and to encourage it in the constitution of his file and I asked him, to reassure me, to contact other people who had lived such an experiment so that they bear witness to us.